It’s 11:42pm. You’re both right. Now what?

Bun breaks up your fights.
Not your relationship.

Bun is a warm little AI coach that shows up mid-fight, cools you both down, and helps you actually talk. Never picks a side. Never says “calm down.”

60 seconds · 8 questions · zero judgment

How it works

One tap. Three steps. Back to being on the same team.

  1. 1
    Wind down

    Hit Pause. Bun talks you both down: sit still together, walk it off, or answer a few private questions apart.

  2. 2
    Talk it through

    Timed turns. Bun reflects each side back (“from your side…”) so the other person actually hears it.

  3. 3
    Seal it

    One small agreement you both write, plus a repair. Saved, so next time you start there, not from scratch.

The app opens with one question:

“Are we in a fight, or just here to chill?”

Chill mode has reminders, your agreements, and little daily gesture ideas.

Bun is…

  • There at 11pm, when the fight actually happens
  • Neutral. Always. The loop is the problem, not either of you.
  • Warm, a little playful, never preachy
  • For couples who are basically good and want to fight better

Bun isn’t…

  • Therapy, or a therapist
  • A referee who declares a winner
  • Something that diagnoses you or your partner
  • For situations where someone feels unsafe. Get real help here.

Early access pricing

$14.99/mo or $119.99/yr

  • Your partner joins free
  • Fight mode is always free
  • A whole year costs less than one couples counseling session ($141 to $175 without insurance*)

*Average couples session without insurance: $141 (DatingNews survey, 2025), $152 (Synchrony cost study, 2025), about $175 (Real Cost Report, 2026).

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